Yesterday, during our mastermind gathering, I became aware of how my strong “no” to some previous suggestions gave me vast clarity about what my strong “yesses” are around a particular project. How might we transfer this idea to other tools and processes? During a therapy session, tarot consultation, astrological appointment, conversation, or whatever, something may be said that absolutely does not ring for us or it ticks us off completely. This moment of “No!” can be a threshold into what “Yes!” looks like for us, a revelation of the next right thing, an “Aha!” For example, if I don’t feel as though I want to produce an instructional DVD , I feel clear that I prefer to write a book. If I strongly object to someone else writing promo material for me, it means I’m happy to be my own printer of brochures. Astrologically, one can look at where Mars is in one’s chart to see one’s strongest No and strongest Yes reflected. Mars relates to the Tower card in the tarot, a card of strong catalysts and reforms.
What is your strongest No? To what Yes does it propel you? How is this a catalyst for extreme reform?
I look forward to hearing your responses.